when you are hassled

When you encounter difficulties, the feelings and stories that arise in reaction are just that, feelings and stories. They are whirlwinds of confusion, based not in what is happening now but in deeply held beliefs about you and your relationship to the world.

Let them swirl – leaves in the wind.

Sometimes you fall back into them and lose touch with the present, but a moment of recognition always comes. Right then, come back to your body, come back to your breath, and rest.

The confusion, the stories and the feelings are still there. They continue to swirl, but you are not lost in them

Ken McLeod, Reflections on Silver River,

A Lesson in Letting Things Be

Things are as they are.

Looking out into the universe at night,

we make no comparisons between right and wrong stars,

nor between well and badly arranged constellations.

Alan Watts

Outward and inward

When outward praise and gain are forgotten,

the body rests in calm

When inward thinking and worrying cease,

the heart returns to peace.

Anonymous Taoist, late Qing dynasty, Secret Records of Understanding the Way.

Being able to bend

The tree is made strong and resilient by its grounded root system. These roots take nourishment from the ground and grow strong. Grounding also allows the tree to be resilient so that it can yield to the winds of change and not be uprooted. Springiness is the facility to ground and ‘unground’ in a rhythmical way. This buoyancy is a dynamic form of grounding.

Peter Levine, Walking the Tiger

All things, including grass and trees, are soft and pliable in life;
dry and brittle in death.

Stiffness is thus a companion of death,
flexibility a companion of life

Lao Tzu, Tao te Ching 76

Slow

Life is so short,

we should all move slowly.

Thich Nhat Hanh

Sunday quote: home

When we release that striving

for somewhere else and something else,

we come home.

Karen Maezen Miller